Chapter 43
There is pleasure in meeting the eyes of one on whom you are going to confer a favor.
--_La Bruyere._
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FAVORITISM.
A little figure glided through the hall.
"Is that you, Pet?" the words came tenderly.
A sob--suppressed to let the answer fall,-- "It isn't Pet, mama, it's only me."
The quivering baby-lips! They had not meant To utter any word that could plant a sting, But to that mother-heart a strange pang went; She heard, and stood like a convicted thing.
One instant, and a happy little face Thrilled 'neath unwonted kisses rained above; And from that moment "Only Me" had place And part with Pet in tender mother-love.
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We like better to see those on whom we confer benefits, than those, alas! from whom we receive them.
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It is not the quant.i.ty of the meat but the cheerfulness of the guests, which makes the feast.
--_Lord Clarendon._
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Feast to-day with many makes fast to-morrow.
--_Plautus._
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FEASTING AND FASTING.
Accustom early in your youth To lay embargo on your mouth; And let no rarities invite To pall and glut your appet.i.te; But check it always, and give o'er With a desire of eating more; For where one dies by inanition, A thousand
--_Raynard._
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Every young man has a fine season in his life when he will accept no office, and every young woman has the same in hers, when she will accept no husband; by and by they both change, and often take one another into the bargain.
--_Richter._
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FIDELITY.
He was--True as the needle to the pole, Or as the dial to the sun.
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MY OWN FIRESIDE.
Let others seek for empty joys At ball or concert, rout or play; Whilst, far from fas.h.i.+on's idle noise, Her gilded domes, and trappings gay, I while the wintry eve away,-- 'Twixt book and lute the hours divide And marvel how I e'er could stray From thee--my own Fireside!
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All that a fish drinks goes out at the gills.
(Spent as soon as got.)
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Did we not flatter ourselves, the flattery of others could never hurt us.
--_Rochefoucauld._
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_Boswell_: "No quality will get a man more friends than a disposition to admire the qualities of others. I do not mean flattery, but a sincere admiration." _Johnson_: "Nay, Sir, flattery pleases very generally. In the first place, the flatterer may think what he says to be true; but in the second place, whether he thinks so or not, he certainly thinks those whom he flatters of consequence enough to be flattered."
--_Boswell's Johnson._
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_Flowers._--These children of the meadows, born of suns.h.i.+ne and of showers!
--_Whittier._
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_Flowers._--Pretty daughters of the Earth and Sun.
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