Chapter 3
Old age is a joy, when youth has been well spent.
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THE APPROACH OF AGE.
Six years had pa.s.sed, and forty ere the six, When time began to play his usual tricks; The locks once comely in a virgin's sight, Locks of pure brown, displayed the encroaching white; The blood, once fervid, now to cool began, And Time's strong pressure to subdue the man.
I rode or walked as I was wont before, But now the bounding spirit was no more; A moderate pace would now my body heat, A walk of moderate length distress my feet.
I showed my stranger guest those hills sublime, But said, "The view is poor, we need not climb."
At a friend's mansion I began to dread The cold neat parlor and gay glazed bed; At home I felt a more decided taste, And must have all things in my order placed.
I ceased to hunt; my horses pleased me less-- My dinner more; I learned to play at chess.
I took my dog and gun, but saw the brute Was disappointed that I did not shoot.
My morning walks I now could bear to lose, And blessed the shower that gave me not to choose.
In fact, I felt a languor stealing on; The active arm, the agile hand, were
I loved my trees in order to dispose; I numbered peaches, looked how stocks arose; Told the same story oft--in short, began to prose.
--_George Crabbe._
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Age is a matter of feeling, not of years.
_G. W. Curtis._
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Men are as old as they feel, and women as they look.
_Italian._
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May you all be as old as I, And see your sons to manhood grow; And many a time before you die, Be just as pleased as I am now.
--_Bloomfield._
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Old age and faded flowers, no remedies can revive.
--_Chinese._
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'Twas impious then (so much was age rever'd) For youth to keep their seats when an old man appear'd.
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Goethe said: "It is only necessary to grow old to become more indulgent.
I see no fault committed that I have not committed myself."
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The young are fond of novelty, The old of custom.
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Speak gently to the aged one, Grieve not the care-worn heart; The sands of life are nearly run-- Let such in peace depart!
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Elderly people look back upon the friends, relatives and acquaintances of thirty, forty or fifty years ago, and say, "There are no friends now-a-days like the old friends of long ago." It is natural for them to think this way, particularly when most of the old friends are dead; but the fact is, that there are friends as true now as ever.
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These are the effects of doting age, Vain doubts, and idle cares, and over-caution.
--_Dryden._
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Do you seek Alcides' equal? There is none but himself.
--_Seneca._
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EVIDENTLY UNSATISFACTORY.
"When I look at my congregation," said a London preacher, "I say, 'Where are the poor?' When I count the offertory in the vestry I say, 'Where are the rich?'"
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ALMSGIVING.